2002 my divorce after 18 years was finalized. I regret staying that long. I got bullied and folded to others who told me to "fake it till you make it". In 2010 I wanted to leave. I wasn't brave enough yet. Took time to grow the courage.
Such a tricky thing to navigate, especially given societal pressures. Time is such an important element. (And the space to make sense of things!) You got there on your own time <3
Let's all stop and think about how regret affects us ...and how we can become a lesser being towards it ..one thing that is true, funeral's leave the arrangers feeling regret...was it enough - were we enough ? This is an area I am now exploring -to understand how to alleviate this pain -because we must
2002 my divorce after 18 years was finalized. I regret staying that long. I got bullied and folded to others who told me to "fake it till you make it". In 2010 I wanted to leave. I wasn't brave enough yet. Took time to grow the courage.
Such a tricky thing to navigate, especially given societal pressures. Time is such an important element. (And the space to make sense of things!) You got there on your own time <3
Let's all stop and think about how regret affects us ...and how we can become a lesser being towards it ..one thing that is true, funeral's leave the arrangers feeling regret...was it enough - were we enough ? This is an area I am now exploring -to understand how to alleviate this pain -because we must
Yes, it's hard work but so meaningful -- the shift between "was it enough" to "were we enough" really gets at the heart of it.
If someone regrets, it means ate least he tried;
Life is full of this polarisation, like per example, love and hate.
On thing only exists if its opposite exists. Black or white, all or nothing. Things are all related, so they are all needed.